You’ve been searching for the one for quite some time now. You’ve had more relationships than you care to recall, and in doing so you’ve figured out what you want and what you don’t want in a relationship.
But have you stopped to think about why you want to find true love?
Think about it now. Why do you want to find true love? Answer this question for yourself.
Let’s look at some common answers to this question and see how each affects how you show up in your life and with potential partners.
I want to share my life with someone
Clients who offer this as an answer to the question, “Why do you want to find true love?”, often say it with warmth and love. I can see them going inside their minds to a place where they’re sharing their beautiful life with a man who adores them.
Notice how this reason comes from a place of being whole and complete within yourself. What you’re saying to the world is, “My life and I are amazing, just as we are. I’m ready to share it with someone I love.”
Dating from this place of being whole and complete in who you are is very attractive to men.
I want a partner in life who gets me
Clients who offer this answer have done the work on themselves first. They know who they are because they’ve spent time getting to know themselves. This is a key piece in being ready to share your life with someone – showing up knowing who you are and what you want.
This answer sparks a light, fun feeling of secret connection. When you show up in the world wanting a partner in life who gets you, you offer a playful vibe of, “I’m amazing and I know it. Want to be the only other one who really gets it?”
Dating from this place is intriguing to men, while letting you do you.
I need someone to make me happy
On the flip side, when you present yourself to the world as needing someone else to make you happy, you give off a needy vibe. What you’re saying is, “I’m not happy in who I am, so I need you to make me happy.”
Nobody wants this. It’s hard enough to make yourself happy – no one wants the burden of having to make someone else happy.
Dating from this place is unattractive and repels the good men you’re after.
Know why you want to find true love
It’s important to know why you want to find true love because this is what fuels you as you meet and search for the one. Whatever your “why” is ultimately determines how you show up in your life with potential partners, and whether you attract or repel the true love you’re after.
Together let’s uncover your why and see how it’s affecting your dating life. With a couple tweaks, we can have you attracting true love in no time. Schedule a free call now and let’s chat.