High quality men want high quality women. You’re a high-quality woman, and yet you still you can’t keep a high-quality man. Good news: the problem isn’t the men, it’s how you’re showing up with them.
Here are 3 ways you might be showing up that repel high quality men.
1. You’re using the same energy that got you the raise to try and get the guy
You are a successful woman who has learned how to show up in her masculine energy to out-perform her male counterparts in the work world. You have dominated this formerly lauded “man’s world.” Bravo.
But men are not business transactions, they’re people. When you show up, masculine qualities a-blazing (aggression, dominance, independence), you only show up as half of you. There’s this whole other side of you that’s soft and beautiful; that cares for the world and its creatures, that wants to love and be held and feel safe in someone’s arms.
He wants all of you, not half of you. There’s not much a high-quality man finds sexier than a confident woman who’s tapped into her feminine power.
2. You have your guard up and your heart closed
I get it, you’ve had your heart broken before and you’re hesitant to expose it to someone hasn’t proven his worthiness. But when you show up in the world with your guard up and your heart closed, you keep your light in and the world out.
One of the most beautiful parts about you is the light that emanates from your heart. If you show up to a first date with your guard up and your heart closed, you keep him a safe distance away by not letting him fully see you, and failing to let yourself see how he might be worthy of your love.
3. You’re treating him more like a dispensable plaything than your sacred forever
You’re brilliant. You’ve used your intellect to master the art of attracting a man. You know all the tricks; you’ve mastered all the tactics. You know exactly what, how, and when to say it. It’s a game, and men are your play pieces, to move around the board as you please.
But what worked for a summer fling won’t work for the real deal.
Tricks and tactics don’t work on high quality men looking for real women. To get the real deal, you have to be the real deal. Which means showing up as you, exactly as you are. No games. No tactics. Just beautiful, vulnerable you.
Treat him like the sacred forever that you want him to be.
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